In today’s climate, we hear a lot about hate, hate crimes, and hate speech. But I feel a lot of things get thrown into the “hate” category that don’t belong.

For instance, voicing a difference of opinion about something is completely normal. I regularly think differently than my spouse, kids, friends, peers, co-workers, and even complete strangers.

I bet you do too. Having contrasting views and beliefs is typical, and it sure doesn’t mean I hate the individual or group for not thinking like me.

One key characteristic that separates people from animals is our mind. Humans have the unique capacity to reason, analyze, and critique at high intellectual levels. We can communicate deep emotions and strongly held opinions. We can discuss and debate. If we choose, we can also listen.

But just because someone disagrees with us or communicates attitudes and beliefs that do not align with ours does NOT mean we cry “hate speech” or “hate map” or “hate crime”.

Many, many people disagreed with Jesus, and He disagreed with them. Yet, the response He exemplified was not one of hatred or violence. He boldly spoke truth and called it like He saw it, but He never endorsed harming another person.

Jesus replaced the hyperbolic Old Testament verse “Eye for eye, and tooth for tooth” with a new teaching: Turn the other cheek. (Matthew 5:38-39)

And when He mentioned the old adage “Love your neighbor and hate your enemy”, He turned the world upside-down setting the new precedent: “Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you” (Matthew 5:43-44).

Simply, Jesus instructed us to love. Who? Everyone. May we use self-control, and speak and demonstrate love.